Relationships
Messages
Two are Better
than One
What is Being "In
Love"?
What about sexual attraction?
Birth control and protection from
STD's
Two are better
than one
because they have a good reward for
their labour. For if they fall, the one will lift up his fellow:
but woe to him that is alone when he falleth; for he hath not
another to help him up.
Again, if two lie together, then they have heat: but how
can one be warm alone? And if one prevail against him, two shall
withstand him; and a threefold cord is not quickly broken. Ecclesiastes
4:9-11
I know that, whatsoever God doeth, it shall be forever; nothing
can be put to it, nor any thing taken from it... Ecclesiastes
What is being
"In Love" ?
It has been said that Love is just
a chemical reaction. Maybe sometimes that is true.
What does being "In Love" feel like.
It has been described as a wonderful thing. The feeling of oneness
beyond description,
the caring for someone more than you care about yourself.
The feeling of wanting to be with someone because it feels
good, not because you have to
or have promised to. It is wanting to do something nice for someone
because
it brings a smile to their face and that smile is reflected back
to yours. "Love is reflected in Love."
It is loving unconditionally, not because you want something
from someone but because
you love them and when your not with them you feel like something
is missing it feels cold & empty,
and then when you come together again it feels warm like you are
whole again.
This is the thing call Love, it is what True Love is all about.
In order to receive Love, you have to be able to give,
but it must come from the heart
because that is where it lives, and moves and has it's being.
This is not a requirement, it is a law, what you are and what
you give, you will receive.
Sometimes it is not easy to do, there are blocks that can
get in the way, it takes work
to clear the blocks, it is worth the work and time spent to
clear the way. Once you find your True Love, hold on and nurturer
it like a garden and
you will reap the bounty of oneness. And you will be as one, unless
you are not.
Anonymous
What about
sexual attraction?
Neale
Donald Walshch, Conversations with God book 2, pg.84-86
All the world is exchanging energy all the
time. Your energy is pushing out, touching
everything else.
Everything and everyone else is touching you. But now an interesting
thing happens. At some point midway
between you and everything else -- those energies meet.
To make a more vivid description, let's imagine two people
in a room.
They are on the far sides of the room from each other.
We'll call them Tom and Mary. Now Tom's personal energy
is transmitting signals about
Tom in a 360-degree circle out in the universe. Some of that energy
wave hits Mary.
Mary, meanwhile, is emitting her own energy -- some of which hits
Tom.
But these energies meet each other in a way you may not
have thought of. They meet midway between
Tom and Mary. Here, the energies unite (remember now, these energies
are physical phenomena; they can be measured, felt) and combine
to form a new energy unit we'll call "Tomary".
It is the energy of Tom and Mary combined.
Tom and Mary could very well call this energy The Body
Between Us -- for it is just that:
a body of energy to which both are connected, which both are feeding
the continuing energies which flow to it,
and which is sending energies back to its two "sponsors"
along the thread, or cord, or pipeline that always exists
within the Matrix. (Indeed, this "pipeline" is the Matrix.)
It is this experience of "Tomary" which is the
truth of Tom and Mary. It is to this Holy communion that both
are drawn. For they feel, along the pipeline, the sublime joy
of the Body Between, of the Joined One,
of the Blessed Union. Tom and Mary, standing off at a distance,
can feel -- in a physical way --
what is going on in the Matrix.
Both are urgently drawn toward this experience. They want
to more toward each other! At once!
Now their "training" sets in. The world has trained
them to slow down, to mistrust the feeling, to guard against
"hurt", to hold back. But the soul... wants to know
"Tomary" -- now!
If the two are lucky, they will be free enough to set aside
their fears and trust that love is all there is.
They are irrevocably drawn now, these two, to the Body Between
them. Tomary is already being experienced
metaphysically, and Tom and Mary will want to experience it physically.
So they'll move closer together.
Not to get to each other. It looks that way to the casual observer.
But they are each trying to get to Tomary.
They are trying to reach that place of Diving Union which
already exists between them.
The place where they already know they are One -- and what it
is like to Be One.
So they move toward this "feeling" they are experiencing,
and, as they close the gap between them,
as they "shorten the cord," the energy they are both
sending to Tomary travels a shorter distance
and is thus more intense.
They move closer still. The shorter the distance, the greater
the intensity. They move closer still.
Once more the intensity increases. Now they stand just a few feet
apart.
The Body between them is glowing hot. Vibrating with terrific
speed. The "connection"
to and from Tomary is thicker, wider, brighter, burning with the
transfer of incredible energy.
The two are said to be "burning with desire." The are!
They more closer still.
Now, they touch.
The sensation is almost unbearable. Exquisite. They feel, at the
point of their touch,
all the energy of Tomary -- all the compacted, intensely unified
substance of their Combined Being.
If you open yourself to your greatest sensitivity, you'll be able
to feel this subtle,
sublime energy as a tingling when you touch --
sometimes the "tingling" will run right through you
-- or as heat at the point of your touch --
heat which you may also suddenly feel
Throughout your body -- but concentrated deeply within
your love chakra, or energy center.
It will "burn" there especially intensely -- and Tom
and Mary will now be said to have the "hots"
for each other!
Now the two embrace, and they close the gap even further,
with Tom, Mary, and
Tomary all filling nearly the same space. Tom and Mary can feel
Tomary between them --
and they want to get even closer -- to literally melt with Tomary.
To become Tomary in physical form.
I have created in the male and female bodies a way to do that.
At this moment,
Tom and Mary's bodies are ready to do that.
Tom's body is now ready to literally enter Mary. Mary's body is
ready to literally receive
Tom within her. The tingling, the burning, is now beyound intense.
It is... indescribable.
The two physical bodies join. Tom, Mary, and Tomary become One.
In the flesh. Still the energies flow between them. Urgently.
Passionately.
They heave. They move. They can't get enough of each other,
can't get close enough together.
They strive to get close. Close. CLOSER.
they explode -- literally -- and their entire physical bodies
convulse.
The vibration sends ripples to their finger tips.
In the explosion of their oneness they have known the God
and the Goddess,
the Alpha and the Omega, the All and the Nothing -- the Essence
of life --
the Experience of that which is. There are physical chemistries
as well. The two have become One --
and a third entity often is crated of the two, in physical form
thus, an out picturing of Tomary, is created.
Flesh of their flesh. Blood of their blood.
They have literally created life!
Have I not said that ye are Gods?
This is the most beautiful description of human sexuality I
have ever heard.
You see beauty where you desire to see it. You see ugliness where
you are afraid to see beauty.
It would amaze you to know how many people see what I've just
said as ugly.
Neale Donald Walshch, Conversations
with God book 2, pg.84-86