Mental Dieting
by Emmet Fox
The subject of diet is one of the foremost topics of the present day in
public interest. Newspapers and magazines teem with articles on
the subject. The counters of the bookshops are filled with volumes
unfolding the mysteries of proteins, starches, vitamins, and so
forth. Just now the whole world is food-conscious.
Experts on the subject are saying that physically
you become the thing that you eat that your whole body is really
composed of the food that you have eaten in the past. What you
eat today, they say, will be in your bloodstream after the lapse
of so many hours, and it is your blood-stream that builds all
the tissues composing your body -- and there you are.
Of course, no sensible person has any quarrel with
all this. It is perfectly true, as far as it goes, and the only
surprising thing is that it has taken the world so long to find
it out; but in this pamphlet I am going to deal with the subject
of dieting at a level that is infinitely more profound and far
reaching in its effects. I refer of course to mental dieting.
The most important of all factors in your life is
the mental diet on which you live. It is the food which you furnish
to your mind that determines the whole character of your life.
It is the thoughts you allow yourself to think, the subjects that
you allow your mind to dwell upon, which make you and your surroundings
what they are. As the days, so shall they strength be.
Everything in your life today the state of your
body, whether healthy or sick, the state of your fortune, whether
prosperous or impoverished, the state of your home, whether happy
or the reverse, the present condition of every phase of your life
in fact-is entirely conditioned by the thoughts and feelings which
you have entertained in the past, by the habitual tone of your
past thinking. And the condition of your life tomorrow, and next
week, and next year, will be entirely conditioned by the thoughts
and feelings which you choose to entertain from now onwards.
In other words, you choose your life, that is to
say, you choose all the conditions of your life, when you choose
the thoughts upon which you allow your mind to dwell. Thought
is the real causative force in life, and there is no other. You
cannot have one kind of mind and another kind of environment.
This means that you cannot change your environment while leaving
your mind unchanged, nor-and this is the supreme key to life and
the reason for this pamphlet -- can you change your mind without
your environment changing too.
This then is the real key to life: if you change
your mind your conditions must change too -- your body must change,
your daily work or other activities must change; your home must
change; the color-tone of your whole life must change-for whether
you be habitually happy and cheerful, or low-spirited and fearful,
depends entirely on the quality of the mental food upon which
you diet yourself.
Please be very clear about this. If you change your
mind your conditions must change too. We are transformed by the
renewing of our minds. So now you will see that your mental diet
is really the most important thing in your whole life.
This may be called the Great Cosmic Law, and its
truth is seen to be perfectly obvious when once it is clearly
stated in this way. In fact, I do not know of any thoughtful person
who denies its essential truth. The practical difficulty in applying
it, however, arises from the fact that our thoughts are so close
to us that it is difficult, without a little practice, to stand
back as it were and look at them objectively.
Yet that is just what you must learn to do. You
must train yourself to choose the subject of your thinking at
any given time, and also to choose the emotional tone, or what
we call the mood that colors it. Yes, you can choose your moods.
Indeed, if you could not you would have no real control over your
life at all. Moods habitually entertained produce the characteristic
disposition of the person concerned, and it is his disposition
that finally makes or mars a person's happiness.
You cannot be healthy; you cannot be happy; you
cannot be prosperous; if you have a bad disposition. If you are
sulky, or surly, or cynical, or depressed, or superior, or frightened
half out of your wits, your life cannot possibly be worth living.
Unless you are determined to cultivate a good disposition, you
may as well give up all hope of getting anything worth while out
of life, and it is kinder to tell you very plainly that this is
the case.
If you are not determined to start in now and carefully
select all day the kind of thoughts that you are going to think,
you may as well give up all hope of shaping your life into the
kind of thing that you want it to be, because this is the only
way.
In short, if you want to make your life happy and
worth while, which is what God wishes you to make it, you must
begin immediately to train yourself in the habit of thought selection
and thought control. This will be exceedingly difficult for the
first few days, but if you persevere you will find that it will
become rapidly easier, and it is actually the most interesting
experiment that you could possibly make. In fact, this thought
control is the most thrillingly interesting hobby that anyone
could take up. You will be amazed at the interesting things that
you will learn about yourself, and you will get results almost
from the beginning.
Now many people knowing this truth, make sporadic
efforts from time to time to control their thoughts, but the thought
stream being so close, as I have pointed outs and the impacts
from outside so constant and varied, they do not make very much
progress. That is not the way to work. Your only chance is definitely
to form a new habit of thought which will carry you through when
you are preoccupied or off your guard as well as when you are
consciously attending to the business. This new thought habit
must be definitely acquired, and the foundation of it can be laid
within a few days, and the way to do it is this: Make up your
mind to devote one week solely to the task of building a new habit
of thought, and during that week let everything in life be unimportant
as compared with that. If you will do so, then that week will
be the most significant week in your whole life.
It will literally be the turning point for you.
If you will do so, it is safe to say that your whole life will
change for the better. In fact, nothing can possibly remain the
same. This does not simply mean that you will be able to face
your present difficulties in a better spirit; it means that the
difficulties will go. This is the scientific way to Alter Your
Life, and being in accordance with the Great Law it cannot fail.
Now do you realize that by working in this way you do not have
to change conditions? What happens is that you apply the Law,
and then the conditions change spontaneously. You cannot change
conditions directly you have often tried to do so and failed but
go on the seven day mental diet and conditions must change for
you.
This then is your prescription. For seven days you
must not allow yourself to dwell for a single moment on any kind
of negative thought. You must watch yourself for a whole week
as a cat watches a mouse, and you must not under any pretense
allow your mind to dwell on any thought that is not positive,
constructive, optimistic, kind. This discipline will be so strenuous
that you could not maintain it consciously for much more than
a week, but I do not ask you to do so.
A week will be enough, because by that time the
habit of positive thinking will begin to be established. Some
extraordinary changes for the better will have come into your
life, encouraging you enormously, and then the future will take
care of itself. The new way of life will be so attractive and
so much easier than the old way that you will find your mentality
aligning itself almost automatically.
But the seven days are going to be strenuous. I
would not have you enter upon this without counting the cost.
Mere physical fasting would be child's play in comparison, even
if you have a very good appetite. The most exhausting form of
army gymnastics, combined with thirty mile route marches, would
be mild in comparison with this undertaking. But it is only for
one week in your life, and it will definitely alter everything
for the better. For the rest of your life here, for all eternity
in fact, things will be utterly different and inconceivably better
than if you had not carried through this undertaking.
Do not start it lightly. Think about it for a day
or two before you begin. Then start in, and the grace of God go
with you. You may start it any day in the week, and at any time
in the day, first thing in the morning, or after breakfast, or
after lunch, it does not matter, but once you do start you must
go right through for the seven days. That is essential. The whole
idea is to have seven days of-unbroken mental discipline in order
to get the mind definitely bent in a new direction once and for
all.
If you make a false start, or even if you go in
well for two or three days and then for any reason "fall
off" the diet, the thing to do is to drop the scheme altogether
for several days, and then to start again afresh. There must be
no jumping on and off, as it were. You remember that Rip Van Winkle
in the play would take a solemn vow of teetotalism, and then promptly
accept a drink from the first neighbor who offered him one, saying
calmly: "I won't count this one." Well, on the seven
day mental diet this sort of thing simply will not do. you must
positively count every lapse, and whether you do or not, nature
will. Where there is a lapse you must go off the diet altogether
and then start again.
Now, in order, if possible, to forestall difficulties, I will
consider them in a little detail.
First of all, what do I mean by negative thinking?
Well, a negative thought is any thought of failure, disappointment,
or trouble; any thought of criticism, or spite, or jealousy, or
condemnation of others, or self condemnation; any thought of sickness
or accident; or, in short, any kind of limitation or pessimistic
thinking. Any thought that is not positive and constructive in
character, whether it concerns you yourself or anyone else, is
a negative thought. Do not bother too much about the question
of classification, however; in practice you will never have any
trouble in knowing whether a given thought is positive or negative.
Even if your brain tries to deceive you, your heart will whisper
the truth.
Second, you must be quite clear that what this scheme
calls for is that you shall not entertain, or dwell upon negative
things. Note this carefully. It is not the thought that come to
you that matter, but only such of them as you choose to entertain
and dwell upon. It does not matter what thoughts may come to you
provided you do not entertain them. It is the entertaining or
dwelling upon them that matters. Of course, many negative thoughts
will come to you all day long. Some of them will just drift into
your mind of their own accord seemingly, and these come to you
out of the race mind. Other negative thoughts will be given to
you by other people, either in conversation or by their conduct,
or you will hear disagreeable news perhaps by letter or telephone,
or you will see crimes and disasters announced in the newspaper
headings. These things, however, do not matter as long as you
do not entertain them. In fact, it is these very things that provide
the discipline that is going to transform you during this epoch
making week.
The thing to do is, when the negative thought presents
itself -- turn it out. Turn away from the newspaper; turn out
the thought of the unkind letter, or stupid remark, or what not.
When the negative thought floats into your mind, immediately turn
it out and think of something else. Best of all, think of God
as explained in The Golden Key perfect analogy is furnished by
the case of a man who is sitting by an open fire when a red hot
cinder flies out and falls on his sleeve. If he knocks that cinder
off at once, without a moment's delay to think about it, no harm
is done. But if he allows it to rest on him for a single moment,
under any pretense, the mischief is done, and it will be a troublesome
task to repair that sleeve. So it is with a negative thought.
Now what of those negative thoughts and conditions
which it is impossible to avoid at the point where you are today?
What of the ordinary troubles that you will have to meet in the
office or a home? The answer is, that such things will not affect
your diet provided that you do not accept them, by fearing them,
by believing them, by being indignant or sad about them, or by
giving them any power at all. Any negative condition that duty
compels you to handle will not affect your diet. Go to the office,
or meet the cares at home, without allowing them to affect you,
(None of these things move me) and all will be well. Suppose
that you are lunching with a friend who talks negatively --
Do not try to shut him up or otherwise snub him. Let him talk,
but do not accept what he says, and your diet will not be affected.
Suppose that on coming home you are greeted with a lot of negative
conversation -- do not preach a sermon, but simply do not accept
it. It is your mental consent, remember, that constitutes your
diet. Suppose you witness an accident or an act of injustice let
us say Instead of reacting with pity or indignation, refuse to
accept the appearance at its face value; do anything that you
can to right matters, give it the right thought and let it go
at that. You will still be on the diet.
Of course, it will be very helpful if you can take
steps to avoid meeting during this week anyone who seems particularly
likely to arouse the devil in you. People who get on your nerves,
or rub you up the wrong way, or bore you, are better avoided while
you are on the diet; but if it is not possible to avoid them,
then you must take a little extra discipline that is all.
Suppose that you have a particularly trying ordeal
before you next week Well, if you have enough spiritual understanding
you will know how to meet that in the spiritual way; but, for
our present purpose, I think I would wait and start the diet as
soon as the ordeal is over. As I said before, do not take up the
diet lightly, but think it over well first.
In closing, I want to tell you that people often
find that the starting of this diet seems to stir up all sorts
of difficulties. It seen is as though everything begins to go
wrong at once. This may be disconcerting, but it is really a good
sign. It means that things are moving; and is not that the very
object we have in view? Suppose your whole world seems to rock
on its foundations. Hold on steadily, let it rock, and when the
rocking is over., the picture will have reassembled itself into
something much nearer to your heart's desire.
The above point is vitally important and rather subtle.
Do you not see that the very dwelling upon these difficulties
is in itself a negative thought which has probably thrown you
off the diet? The remedy is not, of course, to deny that your
world is rocking in appearance, but to refuse to take the appearance
for the reality, "Judge not according to appearances but
judge righteous judgment".
A closing word of caution -- Do not tell anyone
else that you are on the diet, or that you intend to go on it.
Keep this tremendous project strictly to yourself. Remember that
your soul should be the Secret Place of the Most High. When you
have come through the seven days successfully, and secured your
demonstration, allow a reasonable time to elapse to establish
the new mentality, and then tell the story to anyone else who
you think is likely to be helped by it.
And, finally, remember that nothing said or done
by anyone else can possibly throw you off the diet. Only your
own reaction to the other person's conduct can do that.
by Emmet Fox
We know this Truth for ourselves, our family, our friends, our fellow room mates on this planet, and we know this for our planet, mother Earth and the Universe. Let your light shine.