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On the Road to China
with George... page 9

On more than one occasion, I found
myself turning on the T.V.,
Aug 13, 2006 4:33 PM
usually out of boredom or a nervous habit that most of us have cultivated over a lifetime.
Every hotel room I was in had a T.V. and a wall air conditioner,
both controlled by remote. I would be tired of writing
or playing my flute and I'd reach for the switch. In an
instant the sound of Chinese chatter would fill the room.
I would flip through the channels and find a soccer game.
Most nights between 7:30 and 10 there was a game to watch.
And for those few nights that I didn't go out, soccer was a real
treat. I could mute or turn down the sound and understand
the goings on. The Chinese teams were sprinkled with a few
westerners, who, because I lacked sound and language, I was unable
to determine their countries of origin. There was one game,
where most all the players were oriental, until the camera picks
up this guy who looks like he's from Southern Mississippi, an
oversized black guy who looks as out of place as a speck of pepper
in a salt shaker. A few times I found ESPN
sharing a local channel, but I never figured out when ESPN would
be on and the programming was generally not what one might expect
in the United States. Often, I would tune in hoping for
a soccer game and find a big table tennis match.
Table tennis is a big sport here, space is a problem, and
for the average person table tennis doesn't take up much room.
Another big sport is badminton, I found people walking down the
street with badminton nets and racquets on the way to the park.
They would string the nets up between two trees and have matches
among themselves. Fortunately, badminton didn't preempt any of
the soccer games. I tried to watch table tennis, but I'll
tell you, there wasn't much to it. One guy would serve,
there be a couple of quick exchanges, somebody would score a point,
then they would both reach for a towel, and wipe their hands and
faces (how they worked up a sweat is beyond me), and they would
repeat the process. But, the Chinese seemed to like it,
there appeared to be a couple of thousand people in the stands.
Everyone would quiet for the serve and with each point there would
be polite appose. After about 10 minutes of table tennis,
I invariably started channel surfing. From
what I could tell, their Television wasn't much different that
what we Americans have to watch. It appears that they have
borrowed quite a few of our programming ideas.
There were some shows there that were definitely soap operas.
There was tension in the background music and a look of high drama
on the faces of each actor, and who could miss that adulterous
stare and treacherous glare that can only be found in great soap
opera. And the commercials were strait
out of old Madison Avenue, except they were very high Tec, with
the sound level jumping decibel or two higher. Advertisements
included, Pepsi Coke, KFC, Ford, soap, toothpaste, and skin care,
to name only a few.
There were game show, though they did not appear to be popular,
magic show, several, musical and comic variety shows, with lot
of stand up comics. There was a history channel and a few
talk shows, and several different news shows at the news hour
between 6 and 7 P.M. And I saw a couple of news discussion
forums. And, of course there were movies of all types.
There were two types of movies that appeared to be most
popular. Any night that I flipped through
the channels,
I could find a World War II movie. The movie would pit
the Chinese against the Japanese. There is still great hatred
of the Japanese here and their films reflect that feeling.
There is still talk to the terrible atrocities that took place
over 65 years ago, particularly the terrible things that happened
in NanJing, where 200 thousand civilians were slaughtered in 1937
(more than once I heard the Chinese speak of that atrocity.
So that, even today, the Japanese and Japanese products are not
all that welcome in China. In the Chinese press, there is quite
an uproar over the fact that the Japanese Prime Minister has gone
to the Japanese National Shrine to honor the war dead. (It sure
didn't seem all that important to me, but its front page news
here). All this might explain why Fords and Volkswagens are so
popular, and why Americans are welcome so much more than their
oriental neighbors. I might ad that none
of these movies have a short supply of violence. The World War
II movies were particularly graphic. They all seem to portray
either children or woman who struggle against their terrible oppressor,
with the men hiding out waiting for the right moment to strike
revenge. Then through terrible odds and great heroism, (usually
from the woman or the children) they suddenly overthrow the terrible
Japanese, to through some dramatic violent end. Scripts
and story lines right from the back rooms of Hollywood.
The other movie favorite, are the Mongol Westerns.
Where the Mongol's ride in from the west, (like the American Indians)
blazing into the Chinese villages causing mayhem and havoc with
their horses, shooting up everything with their bows and arrows.
All the characters are dressed up in Thirteen Century Mongol outfits
and have the look of Gangus Kahn. John Wayne, no doubt,
would be proud, as the Chinese fight back valiantly to defend
their way of life. One of the channels was Ted Turner's movies.
The movie that I caught, was a Anti-bellum movie (unfortunately
I didn't recognize or remember the film) of the south as the south
moved into the Civil War. There was a Scarlet O'Hara who
spoke dubbed in Mandarin, and the Confederate soldiers were all
running around yelling at each other in Chinese. I didn't
watch much of the film, I knew the outcome. There were some
show in English, every morning from 6 to 8 in YanAn there
was an English business news show, I never watched it, but the
teacher from New Zealand tuned it in to get the international
Rugby scores (New Zealand got drubbed by South Africa 55-3,
which he was reminded of several times by the
Englishman and the South Africa teachers, after
that blew over, he didn't mention rugby too much) In Beijing,
there was a regular English speaking channel, it was 24 hours
of business news presented by heavily accented Chinese
moderators. It was English, but it was rather dry information.
On the Sunday before I left Xian,
I was flipping through the Channels at 7:30 in the morning,
and I stumbled on to ESPN, where low and behold, I found the Red
Sox playing the Devil Rays in live action. I couldn't believe
it, there before my eyes was Big Fat old David Wells pitching
in the second inning, leading one to nothing. The commentary
was in Chinese, but it was American Baseball. Unfortunately,
I had a breakfast at 7:45 with Horton, so after 10 minutes I had
to leave. Breakfast was around the corner, as soon as I
met Horton, I explained that this was going to be a short breakfast,
(no way I was going to miss the end of this game) I told him I
had something very important (I left things rather vague) that
I had to take care of back in my room. Obviously, I wasn't
going to try to explain to Horton about a baseball game.
Since Horton already thinks my ways are rather peculiar, I had
no trouble leaving him after breakfast. When I got back,
I snapped on the T.V. and to my disappointment, there before me
was a very shapely young woman demonstrating the latest in Yoga
positions.
I flipped through all the channels, the game was gone.
As sometimes happens, the local channel will preempt the network,
and that appears to be what had happened. As pleasant and
as good looking as the Yoga Lady was, big fat old David Well would
have been a much more welcome sight. So, for 10 minutes I got
to see the Red Sox in China.
The last week I was in Xian, there
was a beer festival in Revolutionary Park.
Aug 13, 2006 7:06 PM
Along with living several years in
YanAn, Mao, also lived in Xian for a short period of time, very
close to a small park that is now named Revolutionary Park. So
named, because it was used by Mao and his associates as a meeting
and gathering place. Mao lived a couple of blocks away in
a compound near my hotel and close to Horton's family home.
I had gone to visit the historic site, which was a former army
barracks, but the site was closed for the summer, the half that
was open is now a beautiful Youth Hostel filled with foreigners.For
the week of the Beer Festival, the park is dominated with the
activities and the goings on of the festival. What had been
a quiet and peaceful haven in a busy city was for that week a
hectic and busy place in and of itself. Where a handful
of people had mingled the first week I had been in China, the
area was now filled with people by the thousands, especially in
the evening hours. The two beer companies that sponsored
the event were Hans Beer and Tsing Tao. These were the dominate
beers in China, but Budweiser and Heineken were available.
Bud was made in China and was the cheapest brand, and the merchants
seemed to assume that if you were American, you would most certainly
want Budweiser, so when ordering beer it was always best to be
specific. Although the festival was huge (3 or 4 thousand people
every night), it had the feeling of a small town carnival.
There were several places scattered
about for the purchase of beer, and lined up in a semi-circle
around the stage, were dozens of local food merchants, similar
to the food court at the mall. The foods were as varied
as the restaurants that were in the neighborhoods, far to many
to begin to describe, each being prepared before the customer,
very much like the foods that were prepared in the open market
on the streets of YanAn. I had the barbecue mutton on a
stick, which Horton said was a traditional western Chinese food,
from the Mongolian region. After we ate there was a show
with three men on bicycles, doing tricks on stage. We left
before the Rock Concert began, so I can't say what the music was
like.
But, I did meet a Canadian who had
great things to say about it, he was a musician who got to go
up on stage and played with the local band. As we
left, we went to anther part of the park where the games were
taking place. Nothing sophisticated, simple hand made games
of chance for stuff animals and small prizes. I won a deck of
cards for throwing two out of three softballs (the first softballs
I had seen in China) into a peach basket. Another game included
knocking over soda cans with a basketball, fishing for goldfish
(with live bait and hooks). There was also a fashion show with
teenage girls walking down a makeshift ramp, in this case, the
sidewalk, wearing long traditional Chinese dresses. People were
lined up on the sides two and three deep to watch.
The entire scene was unpretentious
and unsophisticated, to the point of innocence. It reminded me
of the small ethnic festivals in Pennsylvania or Portuguese festivals
I grew up with in Massachusetts.
China trip doc
Tuesday, August 15, 2006 2:37 PM
A week before I was scheduled
to return home, I decided to pack my bags and head back to
the United Stares. There were two main reasons; the coming
school year was weighing heavy on my mind. There are so
many things that need to be done before school starts, clothes
need to be bought; school supplies need to be replenished, the
yard needed to be taken care of, and one needs to be psychologically
prepared before starting the School year, coming in one day before
the start of school could be more than a little daunting. And
the second factor was the way I had been feeling.
I was still nursing a cold and I felt rundown. People
have asked me if the food was good in China, and for the most
part the food was quite good, but like anywhere else, eating on
the road (as a former truck driver I can readily attest to this)
can ware you down. There is nothing as good as home cooking. Any
one who knows me will tell you, I eat as healthily as I can, with
lots of fruits and vegetables. Eating on the road and eating
in China made that kind of lifestyle difficult to maintain.
Although the Chinese do not eat many sweets or consume much fat,
they do take in a lot of Carbohydrates, noodles and breads.
After four weeks, I was beginning to feel rather lethargic.
I was buying fruits from the local merchants, but it didn?t seem
to be enough. When I spoke to the English teacher in YanAn,
Rebecca, she indicated she had to cook most of her meals in her
apartment for the same reason. So I told Horton on Sunday
morning that I intended to leave. Since the train took a reservation
3 days in advance, I had Horton purchase a plane ticket over the
phone for the next morning. For the cost of about 900 rmb?s
or a little more than $100 I had a flight the next morning at
11 A.M. About an hour and a half after Horton made the phone call,
a courier arrived at the hotel with the ticket, apparently the
passenger doesn?t or can?t pick up the ticket at the gate.
Horton couldn't get through to United on a Sunday night; the message
said they would be open at 8 A.M. on Monday.
That evening I had the finest food I had had in China;
Horton's mother had made us a spicy chicken dish. My room
was next to a beautiful balcony that overlooked the street, so
we took out the small coffee table and a couple of chairs and
sat outside. I went down the restaurant beside the hotel
and had them deliver some drinks and a vegetable dish to go with
the chicken. We sat and watched the sun go down and the
bustle below in the street. The next morning Horton met me
for breakfast at the western restaurant and called United, changing
the ticket was no problem, the cost was $15 American, but I couldn't
leave until Tuesday, which meant I would be spending one night
in Beijing. I wanted to take a taxi, but Horton assured
me that the bus was the best route to the airport, and as usual,
he was right (there was a major traffic accident that the bus
dispatcher rerouted us around). Horton came with me to the
Airport, as I recall it was $3.00 each way, and having Horton
with me seemed worth the price. As it turned out, when I
got to the Airport, I knew more about airport travel than he did.
The tickets were marked clearly, enough so, that I knew where
and when to be.
I did have a bit of a scare though, I was at the boarding
gate 20 mins. before departure and no one as manning the departure
desk and there was no sign of a plane. I had trouble finding
an employee who spoke English, but I did find the waiting passengers
whose tickets matched mine. Five minutes later an official
was manning the post and a shuttle bus was loading us for a ride
into the tarmac. It seems the local planes are loaded on
the runway; I haven't done that since I was in my twenties. About
tree busfuls and they had the plane loaded, about 90% full.
And, we left on time. On the three hour flight, we were
served a full meal, with plastic knife fork and spoon, no chopsticks
to be found. We had an uneventful arrival into Beijing .
To be continued. Love to all, George.
The hotel had a pickup service,
Sunday, August 20, 2006 1:16 PM
I was the only passenger, and as it
turned out, I was about the only guest too. The Hotel was
about 15 minutes from the airport; we turned off a main road onto
a small dirt road, about a quarter of a mile down the road with
and auto-body shop on the left, and we turned into the Hotel on
the right. The hotel was surrounded by a six foot masonry
wall, the hotel turned out to be a compound of buildings, with
several different residents, but those that looked west had the
view of the car repair shop. In China, it is not unusual
to see the beautiful and the ugly side by side. The Hotel
was beautiful and expansive, with a magnificent fountain.
There were more staff that there were
guests. The place appeared to have just opened and the English
skills of the staff reflected their lack of experience.
The first order of business was to find an internet café,
to tell my parents the details of my arrival. This is where
the language barrier can be an obstacle. After a lot of
sign language and frustration, I made my wishes known. They
arranged for a cab, the café turned out to be a long trip,
but I got my message through, wrote a short piece and returned.
Fortunately, I had a card from the hotel and a cab driver who
knew where the place was. On the way, I had paid close attention
to the route, but it was a complicated ride. I was relieved to
see the driver heading in the proper direction. I had dinner
at the hotel (there was no other place near by) and I spent the
evening reading and watching the English Channel, which was all
business news, more like an informercial than a new program.
The next morning I left for the airport at 7 a.m., about 3 hours
before the gate opened.
I was anxious to get through the process;
there are so many ways for things to go wrong, and getting there
ahead of time tends to relieve the stress. Checking in the
bags is also a physical relief, that?s about 100 things I didn?t
have to worry about again until SanFrancisco. From
the point of check in, there is a re-acclimation to western culture.
For one thing, the airline attendants all speak understandable,
though accented, English. As I entered the international
terminal, with each step, I seemed to move gradually into a comfort
zone. It was like going through a decompression chamber.
All the pressure of trying to negotiate through a complex foreign
culture began to be relieved. The bathrooms were both clean
and flushed properly. And, the food was beginning to become
westernized. After I found my gate, I was able to order
a tuna fish sandwich, I had a ginger ale and a snickers bar.
And, the closer I got to the gate; the more westernized faces
became.
Boarding the plane was uneventful,
I had an isle seat with two middle age Chinese men. Both spoke
a small amount of English so the conversation was short.
My re-assimilation continued as the two movies were in English,
although I could have selected the Chinese dubbed version. And,
each meal had a choice of either Chinese or American cuisine.
In mid-flight I discovered that my reading light did not work,
so I switched seats and found myself next to a speech therapist
from Seattle, She had been in Mongolia for a speech convention,
who would have figured that they have a convention in Mongolia.
After speaking to her, I realized, I had spoken to very few Americans
in the past month. Almost all the English that I had heard
for the past month was accented; it was nice to feast my ears
on an easy and familiar sound. With some quick footwork,
I was the first to disembark the plane; I managed to out maneuver
even the first class customers. Being an American national, I
whizzed through the first phase of Customs without delay. I
crossed the baggage pick up area and was checked out by the final
customs official who mentioned it was unusual for an international
traveler to travel with only carry on bags. I explained to him
that I was connecting in Orlando and I would pick up my bags there.
He had a good laugh, and told me it didn't work that way, the
first point of entry required baggage pickup.
So much for my quick and fancy footwork.
Being the first person to check-in, in Beijing, resulted in my
being the last person to collect my bags in San Francisco. I retrieved
my bags and passed by the same customs official I had encountered
earlier, now an hour later. I wheeled my baggage, a backpack
full of gifts and a green suitcase, about one hundred yards, and
rechecked them both. The domestic terminal was only a short
distance, but required another security check, off with the shoes
and empty the pockets, then on with the shoes and stuff the pockets.
And there it was, no less than 30 feet from the check in, Burger
King. The Seattle speech therapist was chowing down along with
a half dozen Americans who had been on the plane, my first real
hamburger in over a month. I was back in America.
Love to all, George
Aug 15, 2006 3:32 AM
from minds that are afflicted
war is a wound that's self inflicted
we all lose
when conflict is the choice we choose
war and destruction are the tools
of political minds and ignorant fools
that create the false illusion
that we can exist within seclusion
war is a man creation
for those that think in separation
but war becomes obsolete and rejected
when we recognize we're all connected
universal harmony is mans reception
when the universal is his conception
So ends the journey for now.
I'm back,
I have spent the entire morning
working on the yard and have only
gotten the back yard under control, the rest of the day I'll work
on the
front, and I still won't be done. School starts Tuesday. I sent
an email today, did you get
it? I have a couple more to send, stuff I wrote in my notebook
that I need
to include. So in the next few days I'll send them on. I talked
to people,
they seemed to have enjoyed the web site, thank you, With love
always, George
Welcome back George, we are all happy to have you back in the good old
USA. I have received the e-mails, it has been a pleasure working
on your China story. Watch where you eat, we are still recovering
from the hurricanes and you are just in time for the next season,
you might want to keep some peanut butter handy.
Love and gratitude for your wonderful story, Cynthia Becklund